Lebozec, Lana. "Family Expectations of Vietnamese Son." Suite101.Com. 21 Sept. 2000. 28 Apr. 2008 . The author Lana Lebozec writes about a cultures expectations of their children. In the Vietnamese culture they have the highest expectations for their first born son and she tells how they treat him and what they think of them. Some of the first sons responsibilities are taking care of his parents when they get old and also running the household when the father dies. Along with taking care of his parents, he also has to take care of the other siblings in the house.